Nollywood actress, film producer and musician, Allwell ademola has revealed why she is still unmarried at the age of 41.
The movie star who celebrated her 41st birthday on Wednesday spoke in an interview with her colleague Biola Bayo on her YouTube program, Talk to B.
Allwell Ademola said: “I know a lot of people who don’t want to be married and want to be alone. I know those who want to be married but don’t want kids.
I was supposed to have gotten married in 2005, but he died in November, that same year. I was talking to him on phone when he got shot. I lost my mind for 2 years”.
WAKADAILY learnt that the actress had in 2017 revealed that she lost her husband-to-be 2 months to their wedding and fell in love with their best man.
Although the relationship with her husband’s friend did not last more than 8 months before they broke up.
The actress said: “I would have been married some years back, I lost my man two months to our wedding.
“He was shot by armed robbers and I mourned him for two years. After then, I went into another relationship with my best friend who was supposed to be our best man.
“[He was my friend and he later became my man’s friend.] I later realised I didn’t know him well enough after we dated for eight months.
That was another heart break. Having suffered two heartbreaks , I decided to take it easy and fell in love with my job. For now, I am fine without a man.”
When asked how her sex life has been since she was not in a relationship, actress Allwell ademola said, “Sex for me has to do with my mind. If I was in a relationship, I could be very active sexually but since I am not in a relationship, what could bring the thought of sex into my mind?
“Even when I was in a relationship, I forget about sex when I am very busy. However, because I am human and the urge comes, what I do is call some friends and we hang out together.
“Thank God, there is also sex toy. Sex toy will not break one’s heart or impregnate one. But that doesn’t mean that I use sex toy, I am telling you the options available.”