Ivy Ifeoma, the recently married spouse of famous Afrobeat vocalist, Paul Okoye, has faced slamming on the internet for not expressing her wishes to him on Father’s Day.
A person named Oriretan Honour, who uses social media, expressed their opinion that it is not a wise decision for someone to claim to love a singer but not celebrate them.
They also stated that it is even more unwise to overlook the small things, as they can show others that the person is not interested in the singer’s money but genuinely loves them.
The person further stated that it is extremely unwise to not realize that others may perceive the person as jealous because they are not the mother of the singer’s children, considering the circumstances of his separation from his ex-wife and the new person entering his life.
Encouraging her to be wise, he pointed out that showing affection in public helps to strengthen relationships as men also enjoy being treated with care. He concluded his message by advising her to take the necessary actions and make wise decisions.
“Ivy, it unwise how today is Father’s Day yet can’t celebrate Rudeboy, Paul Okoye, yet claiming you love him. More unwise not knowing these little things u’re overlooking count, can convince people that you didn’t come for his money but love. Most unwise not knowing people may think you’re jealous cos u’re not the mum of his kids owing to the circumstances surrounding the separation & ur entry. Think smart. Public display of affection creates bonding. Men love to be pampered too. U’re a soon-to-be nursing mum & not teenager again. Do the needful. He wise. Don’t be unwise”.
His ex- wife and the mother of his children, Anita Okoye, celebrated him despite his remarriage. She took to her Instagram story to share a video of him teaching their eldest son how to do push-ups.
With a simple and sweet caption, she wished him a happy Father’s Day, and he reposted it on his own Instagram story.
According to Wakadaily, Paul Okoye moved on to Ivy Ifeoma after his divorce from his wife of over ten years.
They had a traditional wedding in May, and videos of them together in her hometown in Igbere, Abia State circulated online.
There are reports online that Ivy Ifeoma is already pregnant with Paul Okoye’s child, which may explain the quick wedding.
In January, Ivy Ifeoma spoke about the challenges of being in a relationship with a high-profile celebrity. She admitted that she gets hurt by negative comments she reads about herself online but tries to stay strong.
One comment that particularly hurts her is being called a homewrecker, which is not true as she had nothing to do with Paul’s divorce and they met when he was single.
Paul Okoye defended Ivy, stating that many internet users enjoy toxic divorces and look for someone to blame for entertainment purposes.
