How I want to be buried –Singer Onyeka Onwenu

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Veteran Nigerian singer and actressOnyeka Onwenu disclosed her preferences for her burial and memorial in a reflection she posted three years ago.

The legendary musician, who was well-known for her voice and activism, who passed away on Tuesday night at Lagos’ Reddington Hospital following her collapse at Mrs. Stella Okoli’s birthday celebration.

Do it quickly, quietly and privately,” Onwenu wrote in an opinion piece on Premium Times in 2021, emphasising that her burial should be devoid of unnecessary fanfare.

She urged her loved ones to “mourn, yes but not excessively,” and to instead focus on celebrating her life with prayers and light-hearted moments.

Celebrate me with prayers, lunch or dinner afterwards. Share some jokes about me and laugh.

“Make merriment and then go about your business. If my friends want to celebrate me, they should do so while I am alive, so that I can enjoy it with them, not when I am gone and have no idea about this. That is me Onyeka Onwenu,” she said.

According to her statement, Onwenu also touched on broader cultural practices, condemning the lavish display of wealth often seen at Nigerian burials.

She contrasted her own wishes with the extravagant funeral of Obi Cubana’s mother, which sparked widespread debate across the country.

I am very uncomfortable with the lavish display of wealth on any occasion, especially in a time of hardship and lack for most others,” she remarked, calling for more modest and meaningful ways to honour the deceased.

Onwenu has had a diverse career spanning music, movies, advocacy, journalism, and politics. She has had several responsibilities, including chairing the Imo State Council for Arts and Culture and judging the X Factor series.

Her music and writings have been widely recognised, with notable songs including ‘One Love’ and ‘You and I’. She is also the author of the book ‘My Father’s Daughter,’ an autobiography.

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