Self-proclaimed relationship expert Blessing CEO has entered the conversation regarding Wofai Fada’s dispute with her in-laws.
She began by stating that women should not marry into families where they are not accepted.
She also said that some mother-in-laws may pretend to be accepting before marriage, but those who reveal their true colors indicate that they do not accept you.
Blessing CEO directly addressed Wofai Fada’s in-laws, stating that the statement released by the family is the first of its kind she has seen in her life.
She wished Wofai Fada luck in her marriage but emphasized that it is impossible to have a successful marriage without family.
This comment was made in response to Wofai Fada’s in-laws openly distancing themselves from her marriage to their son, who is a comedian/chef.
Moving forward, Blessing CEO asserted that the only way a marriage can thrive without family involvement is in the Western world, where strong family values are not as prevalent as in Nigeria.
She also stated that she would pray for Wofai Fada because if marital issues arise, she would have no support from her rejected family.
Additionally, Blessing CEO stated that if a man disrespects his father, he will also disrespect his wife.
She explained that women often fail to recognize this issue because they become blinded by love and do not think clearly.
Blessing CEO further emphasized that a true man is judged by how he treats his family and those around him.
She suggested that Wofai Fada’s father-in-law may have rejected their marriage multiple times, leading him to release a disclaimer.
In relation to Wofai Fada’s current situation, Blessing CEO reiterated that she would have nowhere to turn if she faced problems in her marriage.
Continuing the discussion on marriage, Blessing CEO expressed that marriage is not for the weak and the first five years are typically the most challenging.
She also described marriage as a battleground, meant for individuals who are vocal because communication is crucial.
According to Blessing CEO, a person’s true character is often revealed after marriage, which is why there is often friction in the early stages.
She also slammed women who ignore warning signs before marriage and then complain later.
Referring back to Wofai Fada’s wedding controversy, Blessing CEO suggested that her husband should have taken the necessary steps to convince his family to accept her as his wife.
Lastly, she emphasized that it is the responsibility of each spouse to persuade their respective families to approve of their partner because parents’ reactions are influenced by the information they receive.