Social media relationship therapist Blessing CEO has jumped into the chat room for Wofai Fada’s war with her in-laws.
She began by admonishing women never to marry into a family that they are not welcomed in, after which she stated that some mother-in-laws can act difference before the actual marriage, but the ones who show their true self should stand as a flag that you aren’t needed.
Blessing CEO directed a message to the Wofai Fada’s in-law without mincing words, when she said that the statement that was put out by the family is the length of it,she had ever have to come across with
She continued to say that she wishes Wofai Fada well in her marriage, but she went on to say that it is not possible to do marriage without family. This statement was followed in relation to the fact that Wofai Fada’s in-laws openly denied having a clue of anything concerning their son’s marriage to the comedian/chef.
Moving on, Blessing CEO noted that the only way marriage can bloom without family is in the Western world, where there are no strong family values, unlike in Nigeria.
She also said that she would be praying for Wofai Fada because if any family crisis occur,she would have no one to vent to,since the family had rejected her publicly.
Moreso, Blessing CEO noted that any man that does not respect his father will also not respect his wife. She added that women cannot see anything as an issue whenever they are in love as they are blinded by it.
Blessing CEO further stated that a true man is known for how he treats his family and people around them. She noted that for Wofai Fada’s father-in-law to post such a disclaimer on social media, there maybe be issues prior to the trending notice.
In relating marriage with Wofai Fada’s current issues, Blessing CEO emphasized that she would have nowhere to go to if she had troubles in her marriage,
Going on to matters concerning marriage, Blessing CEO added that marriage is only for strong people, and that the first five early years are usually the toughest. She also said that marriage is war, and it is meant for people who can talk, because it is paramount to communicate.
According to Blessing CEO, the true behaviours of someone can never be truly known until after marriage, and that is why there’s usually friction in the early stages of marriage. Also, she called out women who ignore bad behaviors before marriage, and then come later,to cry.
Furthermore , talking more on Wofai Fada’s wedding drama, Blessing CEO said that her husband should’ve done the needful by talking his his family into accepting Wofai Fada as she love of his life.
Lastly, she added that it is the duty of each partner to convince their own families into seeing reasons why they should accept the other person, because parents definitely act accordingly to things and information available to them.
