Nollywood actor Sola Olaibi Gaji has shared details about his failed marriage.
During an interview on his colleague Biola Bayo’s podcast, Talk to B, he revealed that his wife became tired of him and decided to leave.
He explained that his wife’s behavior suddenly changed, and she expressed that she no longer wanted to be in a relationship with him.
Despite his love for playing comedic roles in movies, Sola stated that he is the kind of man who would allow his partner to date other men, as long as she remained in his house.
He also said that he is a romantic person who would go to great lengths, such as traveling across states, to get something for his partner. Additionally, he admitted to calling her 97 times a day.
He observed that there is no flawless individual, whether male or female, and therefore one must learn to handle their significant other.
“Me and Mummy Eniola in all the apartment we have been staying they never believed she is my wife, they thought she is my lil sis.
If the person who is my partner deny me access to her I think about it.
You can never know I am stubborn until I hurt someone. Someone who is in Abeokuta and me staying in Lagos, you can see that love is blind.
You know if my wife send me to go get her Amala at Amala sky in Ibadan, do you know I will go? Olaiya was one of the people who gave me courage to approach. I later regret it.
My wife got changed and all of a sudden she told me she no longer wants to be in a relationship with me anymore. Even if you have someone you’re dating outside, I am not stopping you from marrying the person. But don’t leave my house. Let people sill me and you as husband and wīfe.
Men are not good while also women, but we are just trying ourselves. If I am dating you I can call you for like 97times”.
Many people praised him after his interview because he did not speak negatively about his ex-wife, unlike others.
Funmibb6602 commented, “I love this man for appreciating his ex-wife”.
Another person, Christopher Hudson commented, “Men really need to learn fork this. For the fact that he is not even with his Ex again, he still didn’t talk bad about this woman.”
Also, Ajayi Atinuke commented, “For the first time I see a man telling the truth about himself. It’s a good having you on Talk to B”.
In December, actor Peter Ijagbemi announced that his marriage had ended because his wife noticed a change in him and they began having daily issues, particularly because he didn’t showcase their relationship on social media.
Peter acknowledged that he had his flaws, but his wife was not perfect either. However, due to their children and the fact that she had been a good wife to him, he chose not to speak negatively about her. They met in 2011, got married in 2016, and separated in 2022.
In addition, the widow of veteran actor Ajigijaga shared her experience with his family, revealing that they kicked her out of the house on the same day he was buried.
Actress Shola Kosoko also expressed her opinion on divorce, emphasizing that women should have the autonomy to make their own decisions. She added that no marriage is worth sacrificing one’s life for.
Furthermore, in the interview, she disclosed how religion almost prevented her from marrying her husband.