Nigerian On-Air personality, Chinedu Ani Emmanuel, better known as Nedu, has given reason why he won’t marry a virgin.
Nedu stated this on his recent podcast ‘The Honest Bunch’ on Monday, he claimed that virgins are not good in decision making, adding that non-virgin make better decisions.
He said, “If I want to get married, I won’t marry a virgin. The fact that you are a virgin does not make you the best woman a man can marry.
“for me, why I think you should marry a girl that is not a virgin, girls who are not virgins, in my opinion, make better decisions better, because most girls who are virgins believe that their virginity is their pride and value,
Speaking further he said, “they would say my virginity is who I am as a woman. It is everything. I’m a 30-years-old and I’m a virgin.
“Which means, every pride as a woman is that your virginity, so when you get married and you husband dis-virgins you, then what will become of you?
“In that case, anything a man tells you at that point, you agree, but for the experienced lady, you have that mentality to know what is right and wrong.
“But that is not to say been a virgin is bad, it’s my personal opinion,” Nedu added.
Nollywood actress Juliana Olayode, who was a guest on the podcast, said there are a lot of women who are virgins and are very knowledgeable.
Juliana said, “There are a lot of women who are virgins and are very knowledgeable. They know that that is not all there is to them. You can bring one million, and they will increase it to fifty million. So, I don’t think it is an experience thing. “Experience thing puts pressure on a lot of people. I’m speaking especially for people like Juliana [myself] that have a Juliana kind of mindset about this situation. I feel like that person who is a pro now did not start off as a pro. The person already has so many experiences with different men, maybe with the same man, and that is why the person is a pro.
“So, I feel like we live in a culture where people don’t want to grow with you because there is so much hype about ‘I hit it, I got it right. Yes, I screamed. I shout.’ There is so much hype about that that a lot of people are not willing to just grow with you. And I feel like people who are willing to walk that journey with people, they share more bonds and connections, especially sexual journey.”
